Hot Sex and Female Orgasm Starts with a Little Romance

Men who truly amaze their partners in bed know a little secret: great sex doesn't start in the bedroom. If you want to turn things up in the bedroom, then you need to set the stage in advance. And that means doing a little advance planning and putting together an incredible experience she's not going to forget.

First, you've got to be alone. Your partner may have sex in your bedroom with the door closed even when the kids are asleep in the next room but she's not truly going to get into the moment when there's a chance of waking them up or having them walk in. So your first job is to schedule some alone time with her. And that doesn't just mean you've got to leave the kids somewhere else that also means friends, parents, co-workers, everybody who could interfere in what you've got planned have to be out of the picture. If you're thinking it's impossible, just imagine how amazing the night is going to be with just the two of you alone enjoying each other with more abandon than you've ever imagined. I'm guessing you'll find the motivation you need.

Second, create a romantic interlude for her. Women aren't only seduced through their bodies. If you want to truly make all of her body come alive to your touch, then you have to start by turning her on mentally and that's going to require a little romance.

Let's look at two scenarios which could make the bedroom a much more fun place for the two of you tonight.

Idea #1

Start off by preparing a fabulous meal for her while she's gone at work. If you're not the world's greatest cook, don't worry. Cook whatever you know how to make it's not the meal itself but the idea of the meal that will work magic. Now when she's on her way home, turn off all the lights and instead light a trail of candles which will lead her into the dining room. Have the table set with more candles. You can serve white or champagne but avoid any hard liquor because alcohol make release your inhabitations but it also dampens the performance for both partners and that's definitely not how you want the evening to end.

Before you serve a delicious dessert, sneak up stairs and draw her a warm bubble bath. Surround the tub with lighted candles and lower the lights. Once she's finished eating, lead her up the stairs and slowly undress her for the bath. Then give her a bath. Move slowly over her body, paying particular attention to all of her erogenous zones. Don't concentrate too much on her breasts at first. Wait until she's clearly getting exciting before you suds them or make your way between her thighs.

After the bath, towel her dry and start the foreplay. By now, she's both mentally and physically prepared to enjoy a full evening of enjoying your body as much as you were enjoying hers.

Idea #2

If your partner is a little more adventurous, plan a romantic interlude that won't end in the bedroom but somewhere even more erotic. Make reservations at her favorite restaurant and arrange to take her there as a surprise. Over dinner, slip away to the bathroom then call her cell phone. When she answers, use your deepest, sexiest voice to outline all of the ways you want to pleasure her for the evening. Be explicit. Women can be very easily stimulated this way because we have incredibly vivid imaginations, especially of the men we're sleeping with. Don't think she has spent long hours picturing the two of you in some pretty hot situations before.

After dinner, drive to somewhere secluded. Have a CD playing that sets the mood you can either choose romantic ballads or something a little sexier depending on what helps turn her on the most. Now bring out your secret weapon: a battery-powered vibrator. Lean her seat back and slide the vibrator inside of her. All the while, whisper in her ear about what you've still got in store for her. Pretty soon, she'll be practically (and maybe literally) begging you to come inside of her.

And that's the moment you do exactly what she asks. If you can't get comfortable in the car, get a room at the closest motel you can find and spend the rest of the night finding out just how many orgasms you're both capable of having.