How to End a Highly Seductive Sexual Massage

A sexual massage is relaxing and seductive but it has to end at one point. How it ends is all up to you guys really.

For one, you can end the massage 'as is', which means that you do not proceed to bringing her to a sexual climax or you guys don't end up making love. This is OK. In fact, I deliberately advice clients to do this sometimes so that there's absolutely no pressure to have sex each time he or she initiates a sexual massage.

A client of mine, Jo-Ann (real name withheld for privacy), reached a point where she avoided a sexual massage because it was not relaxing for her! Why? Her partner always assumed sex would follow and sometimes, well, she just wanted to continue relaxing after the sexual massage.

As for her husband, when I talked to him, he felt exactly the same way! He 'assumed' Jo-Ann needed to come after the sexual massage because she looked so horny after each session!

So, needless to say, after this was ironed out, they are now having a great time during sexual massages! They look to it now as exciting and mysterious because they never know how it ends!

Another fault of most couples is they look at sexual massage as 'just another way to sex'. Make no mistake, sexual massages are indeed a form of foreplay but like all foreplay techniques, sex does not have to commence NOW. Making love can take even days later!

The same is true for sexual massages. Indulge in them and heighten the sexual tension between the two of you but sometimes, don't give in YET. If you delay the sexual gratification, I assure you, you guys will come like you've never come before!

Sexual Massage - Ending on a Climax

So what about the times you do want to end a sexual massage with sex? How do you go about it then? Keep in mind that a massage - sexual or not - needs to be relaxing. As such, don't just get into bed with her and proceed with sex. No, you need to progress slowly. And here's a tip: don't forget to put a lot of massage oil on your body for your next 'moves'.

The succeeding steps indicate that your partner is still in a 'relaxed' and 'non-reciprocating' state. This may mean that you do 'all the work' at the start but trust me it will be worth it.

Continue the 'massage' by fondling her genitals then proceed to kissing and cuddling. Now, apply your 'all-over arousal assault'. Kiss her deeply and passionately, while pressing your body on top of hers. You can use your fingers to fondle her clit or try and spread her legs and nudge her opening with your erect penis.

If she tries to 'participate', stop her. Tell her that she should act 'helpless' while you continue your sexual massage moves. Tell her to simply focus on 'receiving'.

Now, slide your way down her body. As you do, lavish enough 'tongue time' on her belly button and on of course on her clit. Move down and put your hands under her buttocks, continue massaging. As you massage her ass, lift it. Encourage her to lift her legs in the air and over her upper body. Support her by continuing the massage.

Once her legs are raised and her knees bended, let your well-oiled lower half glide back and forth her back thighs and buttocks so that your erect penis is in contact with her skin.

After a few 'body glides', let your penis find their slippery way into her vagina and penetrate her the slowest possible way you can. While doing this, continue massaging her outer thighs or buttocks with your hands so that all movements blend.

Once you're inside her, don't be rough. Think of it as part of the massage and ever slowly go in and out of her. At a certain point, she will not be able to control herself any longer (the same is probably true for you!) so let her 'participate' now until you both reach your wonderful climaxes.

When you're both spent, don't get up yet. Relax and embrace each other, keeping the warmth between your bodies as long as you guys can. Breathe in the scented candles and or the oil scent burning on the burner. Listen to the sexual massage music you put on.

All the while, continue touching and stroking each other. Now, isn't that a great way to end a sexual massage?