How to Spice Up Your Sex Life? a Guide for Boomer Women

Sex is one of best mood elevators in the world; however its effectiveness depends on how creatively it’s used! If you’ve not been able to enjoy sex of late or your sex life has turned bland and boring, the following tips may be able help you add oodles of spice to it-

Striptease or lap dance- You don’t need to be a great dancer to be able to strip! There are lots of slow sensuous tracks you can use for your private performance, all that you need to do is to sway to the music and take off your clothes teasingly! A loose man’s shirt, hot pants, a sexy bra-top and a neck-tie tied loosely around your neck, will get your partner in the mood even before you start. If you have a full length mirror in your room, strip in front of it, it will be a great turn on for you as well.

If you are too shy to strip, do a little lap dance for your boyfriend/husband in your sexiest lingerie. It’s easier than stripping and a few lap dance performances will give you the confidence to go for a full fledged stripping act!

Sex toys – Sex toys can add excitement to a boring sex life! If you are too shy to visit a toy store buy online. There’s a large variety of dildos, vibrators and gels, oils etc which can help you rekindle the embers of passion!

Edible lingerie- Sexy lingerie is great, but edible lingerie is even better for a steamy session in bed! It’ll be like the ultimate desert after a romantic dinner. Edible lingerie is available in a variety of flavors at most adult stores. Feeling him lick your clothes off will be the ultimate turn on for you and making your edible underclothes disappear will be a delight for all his senses!

Men’s edible underwear is also available; you can sweeten up your sex life by gifting one to your husband or boyfriend.

Strip poker or strip scrabble- Put conditions on taking your clothes off! A game of strip-poker or strip “anything”, adds the element of challenge to your sex life. When you take off every garment teasingly, seeing you without your clothes becomes a “prize” instead of something easily gotten. You can even add penalties for the loser, like being your “slave” for the night or acting out your fantasy. The best part of the game is that loser enjoys losing as much as the winner enjoys winning!

Erotic literature- Read erotic literature to each other; it won’t put you to sleep like bed-time stories but will get you into the mood for something much more pleasurable!

Try different positions- There are at least 100 known positions and you couldn’t have tried all of them, right? Try them now and get your sex life back on track. You can buy an instructional video or a manual and learn about new positions. Watching the video or reading the manual together will help you get rid of your own inhibitions as well.

Passionate sex fills your relationship with beautiful colors of romance! All you need to do to ensure that these colors never fade is not to let routine and boredom extinguish the fires of passion.

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