Surprise your special female lover this year by pulling out moves she never knew you had. While lovemaking on its own can be fabulous, lovemaking with toys and special furniture can definitely add some much needed zing to many couples lives. If you know that you want to enhance your lovemaking, but you are not sure how then this article is just for you.
You will not have to spend a great deal of money on toys and sexual enhancements. Most of the things that will excite a woman and push her over the edge are relatively inexpensive. This is especially true when you take into account that these items can be used several times and even for years as your relationship grows and flourishes.
If you want to introduce these new presents during Christmas, in hopes of jingling her bells, then you should consider giving her a special Christmas stocking with all the special goodies that you want to give to her. Of course, as we mentioned in our 12 Days of Giving article, you do not need to make a stocking. You could just give her the presents at random times or create a romantic evening where the presents all come out when you want her to experience them.
While you can place just about anything in your special Christmas arsenal, here are a few ideas for popular lovemaking enhancements.
Phallic Shaped Ice Molds
Ice is definitely one of the most certain ways to get a reaction from your lovely lady. Even the tamest girl can appreciate a little shock of cold ice against her hot flesh. You can use these ice molds during foreplay while melting the ice on her flesh or you can go a step further and chill her inside and out with some ice-cold lovemaking before you warm her up again.
Vibrator/Dildo
No Christmas stocking for her is going to be complete without both a vibrator and a dildo. Both items will serve their purposes well whether you are with her guiding the movements or she is enjoying sinful pleasures all alone. Vibrators make great presents because they often hit spots you cannot hit and they massage all the areas that provide the most pleasure.
Dildos on the other hand, provide a different lovemaking experience for a woman that only physically makes love to one man. Every dildo will provide a different sensation as they are all made from different materials and come in different sizes. Try to take these things into account when you are choosing one for your lover. For example, if you are a tight fit for her, you might not want to buy something that appears much bigger otherwise it may be uncomfortable for her.
Massage Oils
You can find an entire line of massage oils in different flavors. Of course, if oil isn't your style you can find body toppings, butters, creams, and a host of other edible things you can place on her skin. These items will enhance oral lovemaking and provide an excellent basis for massaging and foreplay.
Lingerie
This is a fabulous pick because it's something that is going to make her feel sexy. When she puts on lingerie and you instantly want to make love to her it makes her feel good. You can choose from a variety of items in a variety of fabrics. Buy something that you are certain you both will like. Even if she is wearing these scantily clad goodies under her clothes they will still make her feel sexy and provide her with the warmth and excitement that comes with knowing her loving man picked them out for her.
Penis Sleeves
While technically this is something that would be for the male it really benefits her during lovemaking. A penis sleeve is going to add length and texture to your penis. This provides new sensations for her while still offering her the steady lovemaking that she prefers with you.
Once she has opened her stocking, you will be able to initiate a whole new way of lovemaking, from foreplay to climax. She will be sure to love her presents and that will be obvious when she is begging for more of your sweet and sinful pleasures.
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