Self Pleasure For Men and Women - The Only Way to Understand Your Sexual Being

The role of self pleasure cannot be under estimated in the development of any couples relationship. Self pleasure describes the excitement on oneself or partner through stimulation of the genitals. Self pleasure can be very creative and there are a vast number of sex toys now on the market that can add spice to your personnel alone time or as part of the act of love-making.

Masturbation is still for many people a taboo topic which is a shame because if men and women were more open to the possibilities of self-love then there opens up the possibility for couples to really spice up their sex life and for more intense a pleasurable orgasms.

A woman has many erogenous zones. It is now known that a quadriplegic who has no feeling down below can achieve orgasm by caressing of another body part such as a cheek or neck. The orgasm happens between the ears primarily.

Self pleasure is the only way for a person to really take advantage of this knowledge. To really get the most from love-making with your sexual partner you must know your own body first. This is true for both men and women you must explore your own body and listen to what it tells you. For example for a man the idea of teasing yourself by masturbating until the point of climax, then stopping and counting to thirty and then repeating this action around five times before taking yourself to climax can really bring the most intense orgasmic experience.

Ladies who have more erogenous zones needs to explore them by herself so that she can relate the actions she has found desirable during self-pleasure to her sexual partner. Girls let take the clitoris for example; many women cannot allow direct touching of the clitoris as the sensation is to strong. Instead women may find using the tissue surrounding the clitoris to stimulate you to a clitoral orgasm is the best way for you. Imagine if you hadn't related to this to a partner first who during a highly erotic moment went and directly touched your clitoris which could kill what had been a wonderful experience.

Self pleasure and exploration is the key to love-making. In other walk of life we practice makes perfect. Why then do people not adapt this to self-pleasure? It seems like a logical step to gaining the ultimate sex life and isn't that what we al want?
Hey and self pleasure is good fun too.