Sexual Harmony in Marriage and Relationship

The importance of sex in a marriage or relationship can not be over-emphasized, it is one of the key issues that keep love aglow, the root of many quarrels, lack of affection or coldness in marriage can be attributed directly or indirectly to sex.

The issues discussed in this article are gathered from personal experiences and true live story I have gathered from my clients (I am a natural health, fitness, sex and marriage consultant).

Now let us consider some issues that can be referred to as “bone of contention” in a couples’ sexual life. Or to put it in another way, in what ways is sex wrecking havoc on marriages and relationships.

The Techniques of Successful Love Making

1. Create enough time for romance and love making-most married couples are guilty of this grave offence, due to tight job schedules, we hardly find time for love making, a woman came to me for consultation recently, her husband who is a banker and very rich hardly find time for her, he probably thought that money will fix everything else. Unfortunately his money fails to fix the lonely wife’s sexual desire and she started sleeping with the driver the husband employed to drive her around. So money is not the only thing that your spouse needs, she/he needs your presence, needs to be romanced and make love to.
2. Avoid monotonous of sex position-Be creative and adventurous in bed, explore different sex styles and positions so that each sex experience will be some thing to be remembered and cherish for a long time to come. Remember that variety is the spice of live.
3. Don use sex as a weapon-Some people have this habit of denying their partner sexual intercourse in order to punish them or make a request, this type of habit is very wrong and can create some psychological problems.
4. Don’t cheat on your partner and if you must do it then be very discreet about it, if your partner found out it will affect and diminish the way he/she will feel sexually interested or satisfied, it will always stay in the sub-conscious mind of your partner that you are unfaithful.
5. Learn the rudiments of successful love making-Some people still make love like the men of the Stone Age because they don’t know the technique of making love in such a way that will make their partner beg for more. You can get the necessary information about this in my soon to be released book titled “The Act of Love Making”