Swinger couples used to be defined as a male and female who are married or in a very serious relationship, who changes their partners with another swinger couple. Today you don't have to be married or even in a serious relationship to fall under this category. You don't even have to be a traditional male and female couple. More and more gays, lesbians, bi's, transgender and transsexual adults are joining the swinger couples community.
The reason for this shift is because traditional swinger couples are becoming more versatile and experimenting with adults from different backgrounds, cultures and sexes. Instead of a male/female couple changing partners with another couple, they would rather invite a sexy female to join them for a threesome. It's a win-win situation because not only is the man's fantasies fulfilled but the woman can experience her bi-sexuality and have orgasms that weren't possible before.
At swingers parties there are also more and more playrooms for activities like gangbangs where swinger couples and singles can all "play" together. We can see the same trend amongst dogging adults who likes to have sex in the outdoors. In the past a dogging couple (male and female) would go to a dogging spot and have sex in their car with the light on, so that others could watch. Today the couple is having sex on the bonnet of their car and they are inviting single males and other couples to have sex with them.
So how do you know if you are an open minded swinger couple? There are a few questions that you can ask yourself to help you realise if you are open minded enough or if you should try new sexual experiences. Have you ever had sex with someone from another race or culture? Have you ever done soft swinging with an adult who is the same sex as you? Do you always have sex with the lights of? Do you always have sex in the bedroom? Do you mind if people watch while you are having sex?
Most swinger couples in the UK, US, Europe and rest of the world will answer these questions and discover that they are more versatile than they thought. The trick to being an open minded swinger couple is to at least try everything once and if you don't like it you can leave it and move on to something else. The thing is just you won't know if you like it, unless you try. Happy swinging everyone!
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