Swingers Guide to Finding the Man’s Erogenous Zones

Although this article was written to help swingers and other liberated couples enjoy their sexual encounters, it contains information that will enhance any sexual relationship.

It is a fallacy to believe that a man’s erogenous zones are mainly confined to his penis. By understanding more about what turns a man on, your sexual experiences will be greatly enhanced. Liberated women often demonstrate their ignorance of where to find a man’s other erogenous zones by reaching out for his penis at very early stages of sexual encounters, rarely straying far from it throughout the experience.

Activating the other zones is best done when the man is relaxed. Proceeding in a gentle fashion, the stimulation of the other zones can promote intense feelings of pleasure that can rival the strength of the ones his penis. It is even possible to make a man achieve orgasm without touching his penis at all.

A man’s nipples are an important erogenous zone; sometimes on a par with those of a woman. Even though his nipples are flatter and smaller than those of a woman, they have a similar capacity for erotic stimulation and actually harden and rise when fondled.
The best way to start on the breast area is to use your whole hand to gently hold and brush over his breast. Then stimulate his nipples by massaging the immediate area around them with one of your fingers. Alternate this by squeezing the nipple between your fingers. Continue this action on one nipple for a while with differing intensities ranging from gentle to fairly strong pinching. Then move to his other breast and repeat the same kind of procedure there.
The area between the navel and the penis is an extremely erogenous zone for most men. Stick a finger into his navel and tickle it. Vary your movements between light tickling and heavier massaging. Also vary the speed of your movements. Tease him by following the grove right down to where the penis begins, lingering there for just a few seconds before working back up again to the navel.

For most men, the scrotum scrotum is probably the most sensitive erogenous zone. This can include the testicles but be sure to be gentle when fondling this particulary sensitive organ.
Start by holding the scrotum in your hand, providing massage by applying gentle gripping pressure alternating with partial release. Fondling the scrotum in this way generates sensations throughout the whole genital region. It also increases the blood circulation so that all of the genital organs are engorged.

Treat the testicles with extra care, providing gentle movements with your fingers. The level of pressure should range from a light tickling to a soft fingertip massage. Find the hidden part of his penis by gently probing behind his scrotal sack, by probing with your finger tips between the testicles and then massaging it. Vary the pressure here. You can safely be less gentle in this area and a sudden, stronger movement with your fingertips will promote intense pleasure sensations to his hidden penis root.

Stimulation of the man’s prostate region promotes intense pleasurable sensations. It is best stimulated by squeezing it between your fingers. Press down against the urethra or massage it up and down along the urethra. Alternating between gentle and less gentle pressure will usually promote slightly different sensations, increasing the man’s pleasure.
 
Pay attention to the area between the buttocks. This is another very sensitive area. By sliding your fingers up and down from where the cleft starts at the base of the spine to the opposite end between the legs, intense erotic stimulation can easily be achieved. Linger in the region deep inside the cleft that is nearest  to his anus and tickle around it. By stretching each buttock to the side and opening the rectal area highly erotic sensations are generated.

By stimulating the anal region area in the you will spread waves of  intense pleasure throughout the man’s whole body, sending ecstatic signals to the genitals and up his spine up to the base of his neck.

The best way to stimulate the rectal opening is by applying gentle circular movements with your fingertips. Carefully insert a finger into the anal opening and move it gently in and out. Add a little pressure but be careful to check that this is okay with your partner as people differ enormously with regards to how much insertion is pleasurable and at what stage it can become painful.

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