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The Balance of Sexuality – Discovering the Heart Together

Sexuality is so hugely out of balance within humanity.

All males ever want to do is to have sex. Constantly.

Even 95 year old males hang out over the ideas of having sex - even if they cannot "get it up".

Females, on the other hand, could quite easily live without sex. A lot of what is currently going down is just the advertising of sex and this "sexual liberation" of females is nothing more than the "western male mind" conversion.

Love, or heart, has nothing to do with it. It is straight out "me and mine." What I can get for myself.

Basically, the female just wants to be loved - as does the male, of course.

If the female can feel loved without having to put up with the nonsense that males put out, then she will gladly do so. This is not to say that the female does not go to the head and have moments of wanting to just have sex - even the vibration of a washing machine will do in this kind of circumstance.

It is not about becoming celibate or any other tactic of suppression either.

It is about entering the heart - being the heart. Being the one that you already are in this very moment right now - that is love.

Naturally, if two intimates meet at the heart then an "explosion" of two hearts "meeting-beating" will flower. This is vastly different than wanting an orgasm to relieve yourself of all kinds of pent up and misguided energy because of the suffering of who you think you are.

After a few weeks of "falling in love" have transpired between a couple, it is in no time at all that the "gloss" of having "fallen in love" wears off, and the couple are left with the frustrations of who they think they are and its accompanying unhappiness, along with the attempt to hang onto and recreate the previous moments of pleasure that had just been experienced.

There is no escaping the prison of your own making.

Relationship is about loving an "other" and to continue growing with that "other" in love - in being.

Being who you are together.

Discovering self, the heart, together.

Elysha

Elysha is a self-realized spiritual teacher of the heart. http://www.elysha.org Elysha is fully available in Patea, New Zealand in order to bring you home to the heart that you already are. Check out Elysha’s videos and His website.

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