The Best Female Orgasm Tactics Revealed

If you want to GUARANTEE your orgasm tonight, then read up on the 'Big O' tips outlined below.

If you've ever had an orgasm during intercourse, then you KNOW just how great the moment feels. As such, why not apply a few techniques that will ensure your Big O each time you and your partner have sex? How? Get to know your own body intimately and you'll be able to reach an orgasm faster than ever.

And in your behalf, I have taken on this gargantuan task of asking experts just what we women can do to hasten the Big O process. Use each tip one at a time or use them all in succession in one sex session. Hey, whatever floats your boat!

The Virtues of Self-Love

For starters, think of engaging in self-love (masturbation) first. As you pleasure yourself, pay attention to how your body is reacting and what YOU are doing to push yourself to the edge. For instance, assuming you are using your fingers, do you like it better with 2 fingers? 3 fingers? What pressure do you like? How slow? How fast? The answers to these questions should help you reach a resounding climax the next time you make love with your partner.

Also, it's important to create a sexy ambiance. You see, it's important to 'not break' your sexual mindset and to ensure this, the overall mood should match your thoughts. This can be as easy as dimming down the lights or going all out and putting a bouquet of red roses, lighting scented candles, and others. So figure out what's your own personal sexy mood profile and go about applying it.

Sexy Mental Stimulation 101

One way to guarantee that you come off tonight is to mentally stimulate yourself with sexual visions (wish lists?) throughout the day. These thoughts will build excitement and create sexual tension within you and so by the time he touches you tonight, you'll be all coiled up with sexual tension already! Think about where you want his hands, lips and tongue on you. How soft / hard the pressure should be, and how fast or slow you want him to move. Paint yourself a hot sexy picture and you'll be wet and ready the minute he goes through the door.

If sexual thinking is not enough, then try a little 'hand play' down there. However, do not make yourself come. Just do enough to really stimulate yourself and make you excited for him. By the time you guys engage in sex, your body will easily return to stage you left off earlier in the day. The results? Instant wetness, fast orgasms!

Climactic Sex Positions

Females have two main sex spots that drive them wild: the clitoris and the g-spot of the Grafenberg spot. To find the latter, insert a finger inside you (or better yet, have your lover do this). Make sure your hand is palm up, and then about a few inches up your front vaginal wall, feel for a slightly rough surface. Knowing the above, it would make perfect sense that stimulating these two zones - at the same time - is the key to mind-blowing orgasms.

The woman on top position is by far the best one to assume if you want your clitoris and g-spot stimulated simultaneously.

For the clitoral stimulation, make sure you rub it against his groin. Applying different motions, rotations and gyrations always work for me! Here's a tip: move yourself as if you're tracing an oval shape on his groin. This way, your clitoris gets aroused on your way up, and your g-spot gets stimulated (by his penis) on your way down.

Going on all fours is another excellent sex position to assume. This titillating position places his penis in such a way that touching and rubbing your g-spot is almost a sure thing. And if your lover is well-endowed, who knows, he may even reach you're A-spot, an erotic space that researches believe is also capable of inducing earth-shattering orgasms. If promises of a tremendously Big O is not enough for you, this position at least enables you to face away you're your lover if you're one to get shy while doing the nasty.

Here's another way you can increase your arousal: tighten your PC muscles (remember your Kegel exercise moves?) during intercourse.

By tightening your PC muscles, you're pulling you C-spot (clitoris) inwards, increasing the friction created as he thrusts.

How to Double Sensations

We have a lot of erogenous zones all over our body. Sadly, during sex, it seems that we tend to focus on just one or two focal points. So this time, aim to stimulate as many erogenous parts as you can! For example, while his down there 'tongue lashing' you, encourage him to finger you too and find your g-spot. If you both don't mind a little anal play. Ask him to insert a finger in your back door as he licks your C-spot. While going woman-on-top, be sure you encourage him to play with your breasts and nipples as you ride his pole. In short, maximize the use of your hands and mouth every chance you guys get.

Bring Out the Toys!

Every now and then some external help is needed to increase pleasure. For example, if all that tongue lashing has given your C-spot that burning, irritated feeling, reach out for a tube of lube to make intercourse pain-free.

And while we're on the topic of 'sex help', why not bring out the vibrator too? You may think that this will offend your man but it's all in the way you bring it, honey. For instance, push him gently aside, spread your legs and use the vibrator in front of him. Boom! Instant voyeur show for him. Men fantasize about this all the time! So... really, you're doing him a favor.

The fact is, men and women reach their orgasms at widely differing times. Make sex an even more intimate event by coming together. To do this, you should find ways to speed up your orgasms. True, he should find ways to delay his too. So meet somewhere in the middle!