3 Loving Ways to Write a Eulogy for Mother

Our first thought is usually of our mother when we think of “home.” In so many families, the mother is the comforter, the supplier of food, of praise, of warmth, of love.  Mom was the one who took care of us when we were hurt and who knew which foods we liked best.

As we grew older, maybe we didn’t appreciate our mother’s involvement as much.  But, as adults, many of us grew to realize what special and wonderful people our mothers are.

If you’ve lost your mother, you’re probably feeling a lot of different emotions.  Maybe one of them is wondering if your mother knew how much you loved her.  Of course, she did.

However, your eulogy is an excellent chance to not only say those words to her, but also tell everyone that has gathered to honor her how you felt.

Remember, mothers are also wives, partners, friends, colleagues, leaders, sisters and daughters.  When you recount the details of your mother’s life, don’t forget those aspects of her world as well.

The following considerations for eulogies show a range of styles from the traditional to a poem to a letter that can be read aloud. 

1. Traditional Mother Eulogy: Mention her birth, such as when and where. Mention her parents and any siblings that she had. Share a story from your mother’s childhood. Talk a little about when she met your father. Then talk about her career or work experience.

End it with something similar to this, “When I look out at all of you here, I can’t help but remember the times so many of us spent with my mother.  I see it in your eyes.  I can see her reflected there.  And, I know other people will see her, too.”

2. Mother Eulogy Poem: Poetry often can reveal your deepest feelings about your mother. It can also bring to life emotions that otherwise couldn’t be expressed. When you recite a poem as a eulogy you are sharing on the very deepest level. If you are not up for the challenge there are plenty available on the Internet that you can either use or use as a base to create your own.

3. Mother Eulogy Letter: Writing a letter to your mom is often a popular choice. Write it like you would you was speaking directly to her. Mention things that stand out from when you were a kid. Mention the lessons that she taught you through your life.

We should tell the people we love how we feel as often as we can.  We all know that.  But, sometimes, we forget, or sometimes we think they already know.  Very often, a eulogy serves as another opportunity to express our love.