Bridezillas

They say a part of it has to do with not necesarily the individual that they're marrying, but at the same time, they want it to be perfect because it's the biggest moment of their life to wear that white dress and to walk down that aisle.

Although, it's a complicated question one might not know, but feel that the women might not know themselves, but feel that the woman might want to just do it in a rush for stability in their marriage because they want to do it so bad that they push people out of the way to get what they want and the curiosity of how it's going to turn out, but they defintiely want to get there right away and want what they want when they want it. meaning; the perefect dream wedding at all costs and these out of control brides make the time leading up to their day which is an utter nightmare for everyone that's around them because they are described as difficult and unpleasant perfectionist brides who leaves aggarvated family, friends, and bridal vendors in her wake because she is obsessed with her wedding as her perfect day and will disregard the feelings of her family, her bridesmaids and even her groom in her quest for the perfect wedding.

They also say that most bridezillas are exceptionally attarctive confident women who know what they want and can't be bothered to sugar coat it and could care less about someone else's feelings because most bridezoillas egos are usually matched by their temper and with the bad tempers of the bridezillas getting ready to take that plunge.

I noticed that when these bridezillas flip out like that and start showing their true colors, they always end up choosing those platinum costly weddings that are so fancy and will do anything to get it all even if it means being mean, selfish and rude all at the same time when in the long run the marriage ends up ending in divorce.

I mean why spend all of that money and throwing a fit by getting snobby with others when it will go down hill and you'll end up in divorce court.

I knew a bride to be that was nice in the beiginning and ending up being that bidezilla that I predicted her to be and when she was getting married, she argued with me over a bridesmaid dress that shew thought that I couldn't afford and we ended up arguing and not speaking to each other and it also ended with me not attending her wedding and to make a long story short, our friendship is damaged and over with; end of story.

However, it goes I guess I don't know if being a bridezilla is natural and is in our genes when we women are getting ready to get married, but I guess I won't find out until I get ready to take that plunge myself, but who am I to judge. "It Is, What It Is".

Now some of these soon to be brides usually like to procrastinate and end up panicking towards the end with the fear of things going wrong so they end to take things out on others which I find to be very senseless on their end but they also look to their planners to find and book ventures for them at the snap of their fingers when all the while the wedding planner has to know what's right for them and dealing with a lot of attitude and trying to get a hanldle on all wedding issues becase these brides have big, big dreams for their wedding even if they are behind on the planner let alone themselves.

But does the brideziilla really know what's in store when planning a wedding because sometimes, well let me rephrase that, most of the time, they are just busy yelling and throiwing fits and wanting things to just go their way when the planner is actually breaking their necks and going out of their way to make the bride happy because deep down inside with that attitude, it has a lot to do with not getting jilted when that day finally arrives.

But why are these women getting married if it's going to be like that or if they're going to jump ship when it comes to marriage.

I truthfully think it's for companionship cause of the fear of ending up alone.

Now what if you end up being married to someone and you realize later on that you have nothing to show for it especially after spending all of that money on a wedding and end up unhappy in the end and the attitude of making other people miserable, throwing tantrums and fits and only thinking of themselves while other people are dealing with wedding centric mentalities and not wanting the bridesmaids to look better than them because brides to be are revotling, controlling, and over the top bridezillas, and cracking the whip into the way things are supposed to be done, and that's the god honest truth.

So when it coms to the term bridezillas, ladies will you turn out to be a bridezilla while planning your wedding or will you act natural or act like a monster knowing that it will hurt other people's feelings.